Mass Animal Die Offs … Is the World Coming to An End? Or the Sound the Hare Heard!

There’s been recent reports of animals dying off world wide.  Some people are panicking and declaring that the world is finally coming to an end with an “Aflockalypse”.

Scientists however, are not so quick to draw such a conclusion.  According to US government agencies, mass die offs are common but merely unreported.  Others note that the advent of camera phones and internet has made it easier to highlight and report such occurrences; it does not mean that it is only happening now or is happening more frequently or intensely.

This reminds me of the earthquake reports that went online quite frequently last year.  While a few of the major earthquakes were really catastrophic and their reports was certainly helpful to bring awareness and aids to those who needed, the ease of capturing and reporting information online has meant that the general public may start to think that there is an increase in natural disaster when in fact the perceived increase is also due to an increase in reports of major and minor earthquakes made possible by advancement in technology.

Is the world coming to an end?  I think not.  But if this spur us to appreciate our daily life, our every breathing moment with our friends, family and love ones, even those with our enemies or those we dislike, then perhaps it can be positive too.  But if we get all paranoid and start behaving irrationally or irresponsibly, harming ourselves and others in the process, then we may want to take a page from the Jataka Stories (Birth stories) of the Buddha, and learn something from “Jat 322: Duddubha Jataka: The Sound the Hare Heard”

http://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/authors/kawasaki/bl142.html#jat322

http://www.aolnews.com/2011/01/07/now-its-dead-doves-falling-from-sky-in-italy/

Our Favourite Cup, Dress, Shirt or Otherwise

We all have our favourite something.  If it is a cup, we drink from it.  Not that drinks taste exceptional with it, but we kinda get used to it over time.  We drink from it everyday.  It is our favourite cup after all.

One day, maybe our favourite cup is broken.  At first it is a small crack and we still use it.  If it is repairable, we should repair it so that we don’t hurt ourselves using it.  But if it becomes so broken that it cannot be repaired and we are hurting just by drinking from it, we have to ask ourselves if we should still hurt ourselves this way.

This is when we should reflect on how this cup has
served us well but that it is no longer suitable for us to use the cup anymore.  We don’t have to smash it up or start getting angry with the cup.  It does not make it any better.  Put it aside (or recycle it?) and move on.

If we cling onto the cup, identify with the cup and grasp onto it strongly, then we end up hurting ourselves.

When we are thirsty, find a cup, drink, put the cup down.  Don’t bring it to the loo.

To Reason or Not to Reason – 講不講道理

講道理,作人要講道理,但道理是給兩個懂道理的人來講的。教育小孩更是如此。

To reason, we should be reasonable and to reason with people, but reason is to be reasoned by two person who knows reason. Educating children is even more so.

I’ve seen many parents try to explain and reason to their little kids. Some even try to do so to their toddlers who can barely speak, much less reason. It is funny or sad for me to see how parents seem to be expected to explain and account for their every actions and decisions while kids seem to be given a blank cheque to do as they please.

The Family Ground Rules 家規

Being born in a Chinese family, I was brought up in quite a different environment. While my parents were relatively open-minded to begin with and in many cases, entertained my “WHYs” when I was in my mid to late teens, there were many moments where they put their foot down and basically let me know that I’ve crossed the line. What line? The family ground rules (家規).

In my family, there are certain Dos and Don’ts that everyone have to observe. It is not a democracy. It is the family ground rules (家規). It is not something that we sit around and discuss how we would revise it. These may vary from family to family or clan to clan, and most parents
adapted or inherited theirs from their parents. In most cases, it was from either parents or a hybrid decided by the parents. Democrats can argue all they want, but I don’t see the whole nation go have a discussion on the constitution or the law every other day. Members of parliament (or senators in US) represent the citizens and they try their best to protect their interest. By electing them for their term of office, you trust their judgement and integrity to protect your interest. If they fail, don’t vote them the next term. Rinse. Repeat.

In the case of our parents, you did not elect them. Buddhist believe that we are all linked in some ways, some deeper than others. Parents and child are strongly linked in past lives and the links serve as a condition for this lives’ parent-child relation. So in a way, we elected with our link with people. Associate with wise people and you probably have a better chance to have wise parents (and wise kids too!). Associate with foolish or nasty folks and … …

Then there are those who are already on the path to Enlightenment and they associate with the foolish and nasty people in order to help them. Which are you? The former or latter?

I don’t know about the mechanisms for choosing parents or kids in other faiths or cultures, though I heard that the stork was responsible for people in the west.  In the past at least! :p Read More …

Discerning Reading, Responsible Journalism

Chanced upon two interesting articles in StraitsTimes:

1. Chinese factory ‘treated workers as slave labour’ – dated 15 December 2010

2. Hospital steps in to stop abuse – dated 16 December 2010

The first article about “mentally disabled workers allegedly enslaved for years in deplorable conditions (China)” was syndicated from Agence France-Presse, XINHUA while the second article was written by Kimberly Spykerman from SPH (Singapore Press Holdings).

These two articles caught my attention because while both were reporting on abuse, their respective titles focused on quite different aspects of the matters.  The first article focused on the abuse of workers by a Chinese factory while the second focused on how a hospital stopped abuse.  Granted, the context and people involved are vastly different, the subtle difference in the title can paint a very different story in the mind of many readers who merely scan through titles.

To be fair, the former article states clearly in the first paragraph of how the Chinese authorities have stepped in to shutdown said factory.  What if the title had read “Chinese authorities stepped in to shutdown factory for workers abuse”?  Would that not give a more positive impression that the Chinese government is not that different from other governments in protecting its citizens?

Consider the second article.  If it was entitled “Mentally disabled patients abused”, it would still be factual, except that it would skew the reader to focus on the abuse and perhaps even mislead one to think that these patients are abused in the hospital!  Fortunately, journalists in Singapore are more prudent when it comes to reporting.  Their reporting serve as a feedback loop that can support and aid positively, the social fabric of society or trigger a mass hysteria.

We as readers, need to be discerning in our reading.  Read the article thoroughly before forming your opinion.  And even then, remember, this is what is reported.  That is all it is.

In a similar vein, when we hear reports of people at work or among friends, we should be discerning in our hearing and not simply jump to conclusions.  Preconception about people or situations often create self-fulfilling prophesies.  If there is anything I learnt from Literature in secondary school, it was the concept of “self-fulfilling prophesies” introduced in Macbeth.  Like the king who listened to the three (witch?) sisters and later led to his own downfall (granted, many other factors are at play!), we sometimes listen to our ‘oracles’ and watch our own little ‘tragedy’ unfold.

My friend, how do you want your life to be like?  Read carefully, hear mindfully, discern wisely.

Footnote:

I noticed that the date in StraitsTimes read “Thursday, December 16, 2010”.  This follows the US date format convention.  I thought the date format convention in Singapore should read “Thursday, 16 December, 2010”?  When did StraitsTimes started adopting the US date format convention?

Away Till Mid-Dec

Dear Friends,

I’ll be away till mid-Dec. Take care and remember to be mindful.

If something upset you today, ask yourself, “Why?”. Is it because someone did something wrong, and you are thinking “I am right and he is in the wrong.” ? If you are indeed right, then why be angry? Why allow yourself to be upset? Since you are right, you should be happy!

Give yourself a challenge, to be calm and happy regardless of whether others are right or wrong.

Take care of your bodily, emotional and mental health my friend. Only you can do that. Don’t give your emotional remote to others and let others make you happy or sad.

In the meantime, have a nice day …. Unless you have other plans!

With Metta,